Today I’d like to talk to you about giving yourself away.
Now, if you’re anything like me, you may, as a healer who loves to share and support people, find yourself with a tendency of giving yourself away.
Sometimes we want to help someone so much that the boundaries disappear between the professional healer and the one that wants to help.
Maybe you offer help to people without them having asked you for it. If that is you, then that’s okay. There’s no judgment here because I used to be like that too.
If we wish to share our gifts and really explain what it is we not, rather than spread ourselves so very, very thinly and try to help everybody, we need to work in another way
I share more about this in the video below.
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Now, I’d love to know if that rings true to you?
If it does, here’s a way that you can begin to shift this for yourself.
The very first way is rather than being available to absolutely everybody. I encourage you to start to really draw in that you are here to serve a specific type of person. Whatever “label” you have as a healer, for example, you might like me have an expertise in flower essences, or crystals or Reiki or tapping or yoga. That’s the label under which you may have learned, but it’s not who you are and it’s not your area of expertise.
So I encourage you to fully begin to draw down your strengths, own your strengths. And the more you start to operate from your unique strengths, the easier it’s going to be for people to find you, rather than you going out and having to find them. Yes, of course, there needs to be a certain level of visibility. There needs to be a certain level of sharing, but Owning your Gifts will change everything. The neediness from you will disappear and people will start to magnetically be drawn towards you.
So how do you find your you own unique strengths?
One way is to look at the journey that you took as you learned your healing crafts.
You most likely came into these crafts because something was missing in your life. And as you overcame that you grew in confidence in your tool.
Now there’s obviously an awful lot more to it than what I’m just saying here, but the very first place to start and possibly the most important place is …..how did you personally transform?
What’s the difference between you as when you first began before you knew how your healing craft could help you and how you are now?
Then begin to share that shift in you. And by doing that, you’re going to inspire lots and lots of people and they will automatically start to come towards you. They will ask you questions. So how does that work? In what ways could this help me too?
It’s hard for us to bring clients toward us if we haven’t taken the first step so here’s a first step that you could take….
Work from your strengths. Remember serving everybody is not helpful. Find that unique niche that you are here to accomplish. You might not find it overnight. It’s a journey that we take, but find that first, the thread, share your story and invite people to ask you questions, just share, share, share your own story. And you will find that people will automatically start coming towards you.
If you are reading this, I know you have a sacred mission to bring here to earth and it is highly likely you need to generate a much expansive income flow through your business. You may be at the Seed stages of your business or the Bud or Bloom stages. Income generation is important at all stages of your business.
My experience of taking my business forwards over the past 9 years is that I always have the best experiences of life and business when I am surrounded by others who believe in me….. who believe in me when I cannot do this for myself. We are wired to be connected and supported by others – especially females!
So if you are a business owner and are trying to do this all alone, here is my invite to you…
If you’re needing a gentle and loving ear and heart to explore your business plans, I invite you to get in touch for a FREE Create a Magical Business “Let’s Explore session with me. You know it’s time. And it would be my honour to hold this space for you.
With love and Blessings
p.s. If you’re looking for a traditional results driven business coach that’s certainly not me and it wouldn’t bring either of us joy. If on the other hand you have big dreams, love nature and the sacred, know your work is important and needed now….and would love to be guided by a healer who has built her business that is of service and makes money, I’d be happy to have chat.
Here’s a sharing from someone who has worked with me
“Working with Sara was everything I had hoped it would be and more. For a while I had been thinking about having a mentor, but I had to overcome the old programmed beliefs that I should be able to do it all on my own. The business was going well, so why did I need a mentor? Wasn’t it just an extra outgoing to have to cover?But what I realised was that I was not taking care of myself within the business, and working on your own means that you shoulder all the pressure and wear all the hats. At last year’s BFVEA I found myself walking up to Sara and asking if she did one to one mentoring. She mentioned that one to one’s hadn’t been something she usually did, but recently someone else has asked her too, so I guess the universe was leading us both.
I needed someone who had a business head and also understood working with energy and essences. Being an essence producer meant that I felt I wasn’t able to go to a standard business mentor; I didn’t want to spend time explaining what I did. Sara ticked both of those boxes and she brought so much more to my six months with her.
Before I worked with Sara I lacked focus. Having monthly deep dive sessions with Sara, with a shorter meeting in between, kept me focused and on track, and most importantly, accountable. I really looked forward to our meetings and each month Sara would bring different materials for me to work with to help me see things more clearly, make plans and to develop the structures I already had in place
She also encouraged me to look inside to find my own inner strength and knowledge, and to not always be looking outwards for support. This reflected itself in my new workshop programme, in which Sara supported me as I worked out what I wanted to accomplish with that, helping me to break it down, bringing in structure but also the feminine flow.
If you are thinking of working with Sara you will find a great listener and also someone who is able to ask the right questions, really making you think, teasing out the information needed to move you forwards. Her understanding of marketing and business and the ability to combine that into the healing world is what we all need right now. The world needs healing and Sara can help support you to enable you to get the healing energies out there” (Amy)
If you are searching for a business mentor who is also a spiritual healer and has built her own healing business over the past 9 years and if you are looking for someone who can help you take your healing gifts more powerfully into the world, creating brand new results in your business – all this can start with one FREE Let’s Explore conversation to establish what has been holding you back and where you’d like to be by the end of 2021
I’ll help with you a plan and how to put this into practice.
Sound good to you?
And if you’d like to hear from others who have worked with me to build their healing businesses, you can do so